We've all heard of "Relationship Selling." Relationship Selling is important if we want to keep life-long customers. This
is a powerful way to get and retain customers over long periods of time. So, how can we apply increased relationships in
other areas? How about "Relationship Managing?" The Wall Sreet Journal did a survey of the top CEOs in the United States.
They found that 70 percent of the decisions that CEOs make are based on their relationships with friends. Their business
decisions are based on input from their friends because of the relationship they have together. You don't always seek
advice from a business associate, colleague, partner, customers, boss, or peers…you go to friends. We have all heard the
old axiom, "It's not what you know, and it's whom you know." I believe that in order to survive in today's competitive
environment, it is both – it's what you know and whom you know.
Mike Baker is a nationally recognized mortgage industry leader. He
started his career as a loan officer in 1985 and quickly became one of
the nation's top performers in personal loan production. His business
model for building mortgage branches worked so well that he's
experienced tremendous success in recruiting, hiring and retaining top
performers in several states.
How many of you have ever had a loan processor quit because he or she was offered more money from another company? How many
have ever had a loan originator quit for the same reason? My next question is; "What must we do to keep this from happening
or at least minimize the damages?"
Relationship management is increasingly important in today's mortgage origination environment. Look at relationship
management as insurance. If you invest some extra time building relationships with your team, the chance of them being
recruited diminishes. This is an essential distinction that must be taken seriously to add some security to your business.
When I hear managers talk about loan originators, it is usually in the negative. I hear managers say; "Those loan officers
only care about themselves. Those loan officers will leave you for the slightest thing. Every loan officer is greedy. They
will leave you for more money every time. Loan officers are all high ego sales people who only care about themselves." Do
some of these comments sound familiar? All of these statements have been true at one time or another, but it is definitely
not like this all the time. In fact, many managers tend to contribute to the problem of the "us and them" syndrome. Let's
stop all this madness. Let me give you some key concepts on how we can improve our relationships and reputations with loan
originators.
First, we must understand that all employees) not just loan officers) listen to radio station WII-FM (What's in it for
me?") In fact, all human beings listen to this radio station most of the time. By realizing this simple fact, we can adjust
the way we think about this issue. If we understand that all people are this way to a certain degree, it is easier to
understand that one particular loan officer who is on our mind. Why shouldn't we ask our loan officers, "What's in it for
you?" When we're recruiting loan officers, we always ask this. But as soon as we hire them, we find ourselves talking
negative about them at our first manager's meeting.
Think about it – if our ongoing goal is to help them "be all they can be," we can't lose if we seek to understand them
first. In Steven Covey's book, "Seven Habits of Highly Successful People," this is one of the habits. Seek first to
understand, then to be understood. Sure, a few bad apples might stab you in the back, but if you treat them right, these
incidences become rare. The bottom line is that most people will want to help you if they feel you really care. So let's
start by refraining from saying negative things about loan officers and how they tend to be high-maintenance individuals
who only care about themselves. Let's practice being positive more often. I don't care how smart a manager is; if you can't
say something nice about your own people, don't say anything at all. I know you've heard that before. Maybe from your
mother?
Let's look at WII-FM as a positive and see how far we get. Zig Ziglar said it best, "If you help enough other people get
what they want, then you'll get what you want."
Besides listening to WII-FM, it is also important to motivate your loan officers. Your ability to motivate other people
will depend on how you answer these two questions. Can you motivate others? What environment are you creating? Let me give
you the answers and we'll review this concept.
Can you motivate other people? The correct answer is no! You can't motivate others because they have to motivate
themselves. You can motivate them short-term, but it's not going to last until they learn to motivate themselves. Have you
ever been to a motivational seminar? Where you motivated and how long did the motivation last? Even if you went to see Zig
Ziglar, one of the greatest motivational speakers of all time, your motivation doesn't usually last unless you yourself
make it last. It doesn't last because someone else (other than you) is doing the motivating. You seek out and learn what
motivates you personally. This is the only way to stay motivated over long periods of time. It's also the only way we can
help others stay motivated. If you can't motivate yourself, how are you going to motivate other in your workplace? We don't
have the ability to motivate other people long-term, however, we can learn what motivates them, and then support that. This
is the key. This is a way that you can assist people in motivating themselves. Another reason for the difficulty in
motivating others is that everyone is different. What motivates you may not motivate me at all. What motivates me may not
motivate someone else. The most important thing in keeping good people at any position is to find out what motivates them
and support whatever it is.
The second question is, "What environment are you creating?" I have consulted for several mortgage banking and mortgage
brokerage firms; every time I walk into a mortgage office, I can tell how successful it is. If they have cheap furniture, I
look around and say, "Wow, you must be profitable." But seriously, the successful branches have energy and life and it's
evident when you walk in. The branches that are less successful don't have as much energy and life. When people go to work
every day, they go to "an environment." Some environments are negative and some are positive. What environment do you walk
into everyday? What can you do to improve your work environment? It all starts with the manager. As you go, so goes your
team. As the manager goes, so goes the team. As the leader goes, so goes the team. Do you have energy? DO you walk and talk
with purpose? Do you support your personal message with the way the office is decorated and furnished? Do you have positive
affirmations posted around the office? Is your personal drive and focus to help you, or to help your loan officers, or
both? These are empowering questions that you can ask yourself. Then you can find ways to improve on the answer to every
question. Your officer should reflect your company culture and mission for being in business. Don't keep this a secret.
People want to be a part of something! Let that be you and your organization.
Another way to improve your relationships with your people is to praise and appreciate them. Ken Blanchard, author of The
One-Minute Manager, found that appreciation is the number one tool any manager could use for effectiveness. In fact, in all
the surveys that I've read, the number one reason as to why people work is always "appreciation and contribution." Both of
these come before money. As they say, if you are only working for a paycheck, that is all you'll ever get. All people want
and need appreciation. Thank them for doing a good job, even though it is just their job. In other words, thank them for
doing their job, but reward them for going above and beyond the call of duty. Dr. Steven Covey says that our relationships
with others are like a bank account. If you make deposits in you bank account, you can make a withdrawal occasionally. Like
relationships, if you make positive emotional deposits (like praise) in other people, you can afford an occasional
withdrawal. But if you never make positive deposits, you bankrupt the account or the relationship. In marriage, we call
that divorce. Moreover, we do not want to go there if we can help it, and we can!
When you praise loan officers for doing a good job, follow these guidelines:
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Tell them what they did right and be specific. For example: "Mike, I want to thank you for doing such a great job on the
Smith loan. I know that loan was a tough loan and not many loan officers would have been able to pull it off. Great job!
·
Tell them how you feel about it. For example: Mike, it makes me feel good to know that I can count on you to do a great
job, even on the difficult loans such as the Smith loan. I really do appreciate working with you Mike.
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Encourage more of the same and be sincere. For example: "I wish I could clone you Mike, keep up the great job!
If you tie these three steps together when you praise someone, you will be making a large, positive, emotional deposit for
your future success. Turnover will go down and employee contentment will go up.
Finally, take the time to be with your loan officers. Look at them as people first, loan officers second. Always remember
that people work for people first, causes second. Have them over for dinner. Do activities outside the workplace with them.
Be proactive in building a solid relationship with your people. A survey recently conducted at a local middle school. The
speaker asked the students, "How many of you have friends?" Ninety-five percent of the students raised their hands. Then he
asked, "How many of you have good friends?" Only 75 percent of the students raised their hands. Then he asked, "How many of
you have best friends?" Only 25 percent of the students raised their hands. Then he asked, "Is there anything better than a
best friend?" Three girls in the back raised their hands and responded, "yes there is!" The girls said that a "true" friend
is better than a best friend because no matter what secrets you tell a "true" friend, the will not repeat it to anyone
else. Then the speaker asked the girls, "How long does it take to build a "true" friend?" The three girls responded by
saying that they were "true" friends with each other and spend about six hours per day together. The point is that an
investment of time is necessary for improving your relationships with your loan officers. One of the best investments you
can make in your mortgage future is to take the time and make the time with helping your own team succeed. In measuring how
much time you should spend with the people on your team depends on how successful they are or on how much desire they have.
I have always invested a lot of time in my top performers as well as those people who had a burning desire to succeed. Use
common sense here. You don't want to spend too much time with high maintenance/low producing people. Focusing on supporting
your people because they are your internal customers is the key. It is a wonderful thing to be able to help someone with
his or her career and make a friend in the process.
I'm not giving you a "Pollyanna" approach to your business and I am not saying you should go out and try to be best friends
with all of your employees. What I am saying is to go out and deliberately find ways to improve the relationship you have
with the people you work with. In addition to being good for your health, good relationships can have a profound effect on
your business.
In summary, remember to manager effectively by finding ways to improve your relationships with your employees, always speak
positively when referring to your loan officers and others, give them effective praise often, and make the time to get to
know your people better. If you will help them get what they want, you'll get what you want.
Mike Baker
Mike@MikeBakerOnline.com
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